Ziyou asked about the treatment of parents. The Master said, ” ‘Filial sons’ nowadays are people who see to it that their parents get enough to eat. But even dogs and horses are cared for to that extent. If there is no feeling of respect, wherein lies the difference?”
子游問孝。子曰：「今之孝者，是謂能養。至於犬馬，皆能有養；不敬，何以別乎？」
Notes
Confucius held that the essence of filial piety lies in respect — encompassing reverence, gratitude, and care toward one’s parents. Emotional respect transcends material provision in importance.
See how to handle disagreements with parents – Confucius’ approach.
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