Mencius holds teaching has diverse approaches. Even refusing to teach out of disdain counts as education, stirring students’ shame and self-reflection. This silent correction upholds the dignity of the Way and works better than tedious lectures.
Confucius pretended to be sick to avoid Ru Bei, yet played and sang on the lute once the messenger left. This silent rebuke saved Ru Bei’s dignity while prompting self-reflection, showing his subtle, deed-based educational wisdom instead of harsh verbal criticism.
The Master said, “To have faults and not correct them – that is truly a fault.”
Zigong asked, “Is there one word that can be practiced for a lifetime?” The Master said, “Perhaps it is ‘shu’ (reciprocity)! Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.”
The Master said with a sigh, “You, Zhong You! Truly, those who understand virtue are few indeed!”