reciprocity

  • Mencius – Chapter 14.31

    Mencius holds benevolence and righteousness grow from extending innate compassion and moral reluctance. Expanding such inner conscience yields endless virtue. He condemns scholars manipulating speech or silence for favor, equating such hypocrisy to theft.

  • Mencius – Chapter 14.7

    Mencius warns against slaying others’ kin. Killing someone’s father or brother triggers retaliation against your own family. Though you do not kill your relatives personally, the tragic outcome barely differs from direct murder.

  • The Analects – Chapter 15.24

    Zigong asked, “Is there one word that can be practiced for a lifetime?” The Master said, “Perhaps it is ‘shu’ (reciprocity)! Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.”

  • The Analects – Chapter 14.34

    Someone asked, “What about repaying resentment with virtue?”The Master replied, “Then what would you use to repay virtue? Repay resentment with uprightness, and repay virtue with virtue.”

  • The Analects – Chapter 12.16

    The Master said, “The noble person helps others fulfill their good intentions and does not assist them in doing wrong. The petty person does the opposite.”

  • The Analects – Chapter 12.2

    Zhong Gong (Ran Yong) asked about humaneness. The Master said, “When you go out, behave as if you were receiving a distinguished guest; when you employ the people, act as if you were conducting a great sacrifice. Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire. Then, whether serving in government or…

  • The Analects – Chapter 12.1

    Yan Hui asked about benevolence (humaneness). The Master said, “To restrain oneself and return to ritual propriety is humaneness. If for just one day everyone could restrain themselves and conform to ritual propriety, the whole world would return to humaneness. Cultivating humaneness depends on oneself—how could it depend on others?”

  • Doctrine of the Mean Chapter 13. The Way is Near: The ethics of everyday life

    The Master said:“The Way is not distant from people.If one pursues the Way in a way that estranges it from human life, it cannot be called the true Way.”

  • Great Learning Chapter 12. The Ruler’s Mirror: Empathy and Reciprocity

    What is meant by “bringing peace to the world depends on governing one’s state well” is this:When those in high positions honor the elderly, the people are inspired to practice filial piety;when they respect their elders, the people are inspired to practice fraternal duty;when they show compassion for orphans, the people will not abandon…