Confucius remarks women and petty folk are hard to get along with: too close and they grow disrespectful; too distant and they resent him. This much-debated line reflects ancient social limits and a lesson on balanced interpersonal boundaries.
Meng Xianzi said:“A family that keeps a team of four horses for chariots should not concern itself with raising chickens and pigs for profit;a household entitled to cut ice for ancestral rites should not raise cattle and sheep for gain;a state possessing a hundred war chariots should not employ ministers who amass wealth through…