When we are hungry we seek relief from others. When we have full stomachs we shun others.
If there is a warm shelter, we all flock to it. If there is a freezing shanty, we all turn our backs on it. This is a common flaw in human nature.
饥则附，饱则飏，燠则趋，寒则弃，人情通患也。
Notes
Cai Gen Tan (Tending the roots of wisdom) exposes humanity’s universal frailty: the instinct to pursue gain and avoid loss.
Relationships often operate on interest-first pragmatism — most recalibrate ties based on shifting needs: distancing when satisfied, clinging when desperate.
This self-protective dynamic stems not from malice but innate human universality, a common rhythm of social exchange.
While revealing interest as relational bedrock, it paradoxically highlights the rarity of disinterested affection.
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