self-effacement

  • The Analects – Chapter 133 (6.15). The unclaimed honor

    6.15 The Master said, “Meng Zhifan is no boaster. When his people were routed he was the last to flee; but when they neared the city-gate, he whipped up his horses, saying, ‘It was not courage that kept me behind. My horses were slow.’”

  • Caigentan 19. Shared glory, assumed blame

    When your good reputation goes hand in hand with your high morals, you should not treat these achievements exclusively as your own, but share them with others. That way you preserve yourself from distant dangers. Shameful conduct and unsavoury reputation should not be foisted off entirely onto others, but some should be taken on…

  • Dao De Jing – Chapter 56

    He who knows (the Dao) does not (care to) speak (about it); he who is (ever ready to) speak about it does not know it.He (who knows it) will keep his mouth shut and close the portals (of his nostrils). He will blunt his sharp points and unravel the complications of things; he will…