The Master said, “The noble person seeks from himself; the petty person seeks from others.”
The Master said, “Do not worry that others do not understand you; worry that you lack ability.”
The Master said, “If a person speaks without any sense of shame, it will be difficult for him to carry out what he says.”
Zigong asked about friendship. The Master said, “Give loyal advice and guide gently; if he does not accept it, stop—do not humiliate yourself.”