etiquette

  • Mencius – Chapter 13.46

    Mencius stresses prioritizing essentials: wise men focus on urgent tasks, benevolent ones prioritize kin and worthies. Yao and Shun followed this. He criticizes those fussing over trivial rituals while ignoring core mourning and dining etiquette fundamentals.

  • Mencius – Chapter 12.14

    To Chen Zi’s question, Mencius lays out three tiers for scholars to take or quit office, prioritizing rulers’ respect and willingness to implement their Way. Relief to escape starvation is acceptable only as a last resort.

  • Mencius – Chapter 10.4

    Mencius stresses reverence in social exchanges and accepts ritual-compliant gifts, yet rejects stolen loot from murderers. He distinguishes criminal robbers from exploitative lords, explaining Confucius took office for three pragmatic reasons to gradually promote the Dao before departing.

  • The Analects: A Window into Confucian Wisdom and Chinese Culture

    If one wishes to understand Chinese culture, values, and the way of thinking that has shaped billions of people for over 2,000 years, The Analects (Lunyu in Chinese) is an indispensable book. Compiled by the disciples of Confucius (Kongzi, 551–479 BCE) and their followers, this collection of dialogues, sayings, and anecdotes is not just…

  • Mencius – Chapter 8.27 Ritual is order, Not flattery

    When Gong Xingzi was mourning the death of his son, You Shi (the Right Minister, Wang Huan, styled Zi Ao) came to offer condolences. As soon as he entered, some people stepped forward to speak with him, while others went directly to his seat to talk with him.

  • Zen Masters speaking through the Staff

    Chan Master Linji Yixuan was one of the most influential figures in the history of Chan (Zen) Buddhism, particularly known for founding the Linji school. His teachings emphasized direct experience over scriptural study, advocating for a practice that cuts through delusion to achieve sudden enlightenment. Linji is famous for his use of shocking techniques,…