• The Analects – Chapter 10.16

    When sleeping, he did not lie stiffly like a corpse; when at home, he was relaxed and unpretentious. Yet whenever he saw someone in mourning dress – even if they were close friends – he would always change his expression to one of solemnity. When encountering someone wearing a ceremonial cap or a blind…

  • The Analects – Chapter 10.15

    When a friend died and had no family to care for the funeral, Confucius said, “I will handle his burial.” When friends gave gifts – even something as valuable as a carriage and horses – he would not bow in thanks unless the gift was sacrificial meat.

  • The Analects – Chapter 10.14

    When Confucius entered the Grand Temple (the ancestral temple of the ruler), he asked about every detail of the rites.

  • The Analects – Chapter 10.13

    When the ruler granted cooked food, Confucius would always straighten his mat and taste it first as a sign of respect. When granted raw meat, he would cook it and first offer it to his ancestors. When granted a live animal, he would raise it alive. When dining with the ruler, as soon as…

  • The Analects – Chapter 10.12

    The stable caught fire. When Confucius returned from court, his first question was, “Was anyone hurt?” He did not ask about the horses.

  • The Analects – Chapter 10.11

    When Confucius asked someone to convey his regards to a friend in another state, he would bow twice respectfully before sending the messenger off. When Ji Kangzi sent him medicine, Confucius bowed and accepted it, but said, “I do not yet understand its nature; I dare not taste it.”